Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Whom to blame - Good message to adapt into our lives




A Boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a
  loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was
  around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open.
                                                                     
                                                                     
  He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it
  in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the
  matter.                                                             
                                                                     
  The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its
  colour and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for
  adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him
  to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified
  how to face her husband.                                           
                                                                     
  When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child he
  looked at his wife and uttered just five words.                     
                                                                     
  QUESTIONS:                                                         
                                                                     
  1. What were the five words?                                       
  2. What is the implication of this story?                           
                                                                     
  Scroll down...                                                     
                                                                     
                                                                     
                                                                     
  down.                                                               
                                                                     
                                                                     
  ANSWER :                                                           
                                                                     
  The husband just said "I am with you Darling"                       
                                                                     
  The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The
  child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point
  in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to
  keep the bottle away, this would not have happened.                 
                                                                     
  No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed
  at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband.       
  That is what he gave her.                                           
                                                                     
                                                                     
  If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would
  be much fewer problems in the world. "A journey of a thousand miles 
  begins with a single step." Take off all your envies, jealousies,   
  unforgiven, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually
  not as difficult as you think.                                     
                                                                     
  Author Unknown..                                                   
                                                                     
                                                                     
  MORAL OF THE STORY :                                               
                                                                     
                                                                     
  Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame,
  whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this
            way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.       






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